How to get out of debts and be happy
61Without debt you are independent and free,with debt you are fettered and lonely.
How to get out of debt
Financial control
Debt makes you lose your sleep and peace of mind. There was a period in my life when I was knee deep in debt and believe me, I feared to hear the sound of phone calls as I thought it was from the lenders. I had fear in my heart always and when I wake up, my mind will be cringing with self pity and I would consider myself as the most unlucky person in the world. Our spending was restricted as most of the money went to pay the interest and the tragic part was how our relatives reacted to our misery. They closed the door on us as they feared we might approach them for financial help.
You should be very careful when you want to borrow money. You should analyze whether you will be able to manage your family after paying the interest, as it can eat into your financial resources in a real bad way. Do not borrow for spending lavishly and you will regret it afterwards. Instead of borrowing, you should make efforts to live in a sensible way, cutting all unnecessary expenses you thoughtlessly did.
Talk about your financial problem with your family, and tell them that the stringent measures taken will be for a short time and they can enjoy life when all debts are cleared. Planning your salary effectively can make you financially safe in the future.
1. Do not eat out as it will prick a hole in your purse. Home cooked foods are lot cheaper and healthy too. Pack homemade lunch to your work and you will be pleased by the money you save.
2. Do not be a fashion fanatic as you will feel your dresses are out of fashion after a short period of time. You have to shell out money to keep in trend and this is another loophole through which money drains. Be well dressed and do not be too fashion conscious.
3. Using two wheelers or car for nearby shopping is a big’ no’, as you have to manage a big fuel bill. Make it a habit to use public transportation to your work place and you will see some neat money piling.
4. Can you use computer, then you can make some extra money working from home .If you technically sound, computer can provide you with lots of money as there are many opportunities.
5. If you are adept in cooking some foreign cusine, you can make use of it to conduct cookery classes in your week end and this will provide you with money to run the family as most of your salary will be towards repaying.
6. Say goodbye to your credit cards as they are the main culprits in giving you a false feeling of wealth. When you pay cash you will be judicious in your spending.
7. Make a budget of your salary and stick to it. Do not become impatient and overlook your planning as your debt repayment will meet a stalemate.
8. Do not borrow from your credit card to repay your loan as you will be jumping right into the frying pan. Make a steady polishing off of your loan at your pace and if you are patient and steady in repayment, you will be amazed to see your debts melting away.
9. Always be prompt in your repayment as it will relieve you of your stress and tension. Visualize the happiness you are going to feel when your debts are cleared and you will feel motivated in your endeavor to handle your debts.
10. Do not approach the commercial debt companies as it will only provide you temporary relief and you will be caught in another swirl of heavy debts with even more heavy interest rates.
Do not brood and make yourself miserable thinking you have done a foolish thing. It is true you are having been ignorant in your dealing with money; you should realize your mistakes and decide emphatically never to get into debt ever again as it is always a very lonely world when you are financially down.






